Most Americans Say 'I Love You' Every Day (AP)
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Many ways to say 'I love you'
Many ways to say 'I love you'
09/01/2004 04:22 AMComputer Times Sep 1 2004 7:55AM GMT
Parton's 'Always Love You' Tops CMT List
(AP)
Parton's 'Always Love You' Tops CMT List
(AP)
06/09/2004 11:46 PMAP - In the teen movie "Fast Times at Ridgemont High," one character
advises his buddy, "When it comes down to making out, whenever
possible, put on side one of Led Zeppelin IV." Country Music
Television has come up with its own list of can't-miss love songs, but
it doesn't include Zeppelin.
Beware of 'I Love You' emails, Indian
anti-virus software firm warns (AFP)
Beware of 'I Love You' emails, Indian
anti-virus software firm warns (AFP)
02/13/2004 01:20 PMAFP - "I Love You" emails on Valentine's Day may trigger a virus
attack that could paralyse corporate networks, an Indian anti-virus
softwaremaker warned.
"Americans love guns"
"Americans love guns"
01/06/2005 11:45 AMAmericans to their cell phones: "How I
love to hate you"
Americans to their cell phones: "How I
love to hate you"
01/22/2004 02:13 AMThe cell phone tops this year's Lemelson-MIT Program list of
inventions people hate, but cannot live without.
Gaming 'is good for you'
Gaming 'is good for you'
12/30/2003 06:14 AMBBC Dec 30 2003 4:47AM ET
A little porn is 'good for you'
A little porn is 'good for you'
08/16/2004 02:34 PM PORNOGRAPHY is good for people, the academic leading a
taxpayer-funded study of the subject said yesterday, as the Coalition
and Labor traded jibes about an Opposition push to stop online porn
reaching home computers.
Alan McKee, who with academics Catharine Lumby and Kath Albury is
conducting the Understanding Pornography in Australia study, said that
a survey of more than 1000 porn-users must be taken into account as
Labor considers forcing all internet service providers to
automatically filter hardcore porn to protect children.
"The surprising finding was that pornography is actually good for
you in many ways," Dr McKee said.
"When you look at people who are using it in everyday life, over
90 per cent report it has had a very positive effect."
Dr McKee said porn users reported it had taught them "to be more
relaxed about their sexuality" and marriages were healthier,
while porn made people think about another person's pleasure and made
them less judgmental about body shapes.

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Video games 'good for you'
11/07/2003 05:31 AMBBC Nov 7 2003 4:58AM ET
Stress 'can be good for you'
Stress 'can be good for you'
07/05/2004 07:43 AMShort bursts of stress might actually strengthen your body's immune
system, say researchers.
'Microsoft will not completely protect
you' says Gartner
'Microsoft will not completely protect
you' says Gartner
09/20/2004 06:53 AMZDNet UK Sep 20 2004 11:27AM GMT
Marriage Vow to Change to 'I Receive
You' (Reuters)
Marriage Vow to Change to 'I Receive
You' (Reuters)
05/20/2004 08:32 AMReuters - Couples getting married in Italy's
churches will soon say "I receive you" instead of "I take you"
as part of their wedding vows.
"Scan 'shows if people trust you'"
"Scan 'shows if people trust you'"
04/01/2005 05:29 PMAre You a Perpetual Bad Relationship
Magnet? Nobody's Unlucky in Love:
Learning Core Causes for Lousy Love
Relationships
Are You a Perpetual Bad Relationship
Magnet? Nobody's Unlucky in Love:
Learning Core Causes for Lousy Love
Relationships
06/18/2004 03:10 AMRelationship advisor and author Nancy Pina dispenses free relationship
advice to adults struggling with individual, couples and marriage
issues. She advises teens and young adults in recognizing healthy,
loving relationships. [PRWEB Jun 18, 2004]
NEWS.com.au | A little porn is 'good for
you' (August 17, 2004)
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you' (August 17, 2004)
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Pakistani Held in Iraq Told 'We Will
Behead You'
Pakistani Held in Iraq Told 'We Will
Behead You'
07/05/2004 07:08 PMReuters via Wired News Jul 5 2004 10:34PM GMT
Chris Abraham: Liberals Find Mad Love at
Act For Love
Chris Abraham: Liberals Find Mad Love at
Act For Love
06/22/2005 02:45 AMLiberals Find Mad Love at Act For Love ..
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Boys love games, girls love ringtones
Boys love games, girls love ringtones
06/02/2004 10:08 AMBut neither gives a hoot for 3G
Pakistani Held in Iraq Told 'We Will
Behead You' (Reuters)
Pakistani Held in Iraq Told 'We Will
Behead You' (Reuters)
07/05/2004 07:49 AMReuters - A Pakistani man kidnapped then freed by
Islamic militants in Iraq says his captors told him they
planned to behead him.
Microsoft Revamping MSN Search Saying it
wants to help you get faster, cleaner,
and easier access to what you'
Microsoft Revamping MSN Search Saying it
wants to help you get faster, cleaner,
and easier access to what you'
07/01/2004 11:55 PMAVN Online Jul 2 2004 4:09AM GMT
Love Macs? Then Learn To Love Macsurfer
Love Macs? Then Learn To Love Macsurfer
05/19/2004 08:55 AMIt does a bang up job of providing the Apple community with
interesting reads day in day out. By Hadley Stern, O'Reilly Network
(via MyAppleMenu)
I love women...no, wait, apparently I
love men
I love women...no, wait, apparently I
love men
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"Wait... they don't love you like I love
you" [sorry, got stuck in my head]
"Wait... they don't love you like I love
you" [sorry, got stuck in my head]
03/25/2005 04:09 PM
Social
Explorer. "Social Explorer is dedicated to providing
demographic information in an easily understood format, data maps. We
serve hundreds of interactive data maps of United States. Here, you
can visually analyze and understand the demography of the U.S.,
explore your neighborhood and learn about the people that live around
you."
The Irish Have a New Jackass: If You
Like Dumb, Stupid and Funny Stuff, Then
You Will Love This New Site From a Group
of Crazy Mental Irish guys Who Just Love
to Party
The Irish Have a New Jackass: If You
Like Dumb, Stupid and Funny Stuff, Then
You Will Love This New Site From a Group
of Crazy Mental Irish guys Who Just Love
to Party
03/22/2005 04:47 PMThe Americans have Jackass while the Irish have the Crazy mental team.
These guys film all their stupid and funny stuff for our enjoyment,
from driving a Ferrari 355 at breakneck speeds around the Hollywood
hills in Los Angeles to drilling a hole in one of their arms with a
hammer drill, these guys are really crazy. [PRWEB Mar 21, 2005]
Against Love: Love Politics Revisited
Against Love: Love Politics Revisited
03/22/2005 04:54 PM
The
Idea: Author
Laura Kipnis argues that monogamy is unnatural and unhealthy, and
possibly complicit in our emotional detachment from political life and
our ecosystem as well.
Laura Kipnis, despite the title
of of her 200-page "polemic", is not Against Love. Rather,
she's against the trappings, the rules, the rituals that our culture
imposes on love relationships. She goes even further -- she sees
marriage, the institution, as every bit as repressive, suffocating and
unnatural as our mind-numbing employment in modern hierarchical
organizations, and draws strong parallels between the slavery of the
workplace and the slavery of the matrimonial home. These two canons of
civilization: our need and responsibility to devote our daytime hours
to meaningless subordinate labour, and our need and responsibility to
devote the rest of our hours to boring, stifling and unsatisfying
monogamy, work together diabolically to keep us suppressed, and in our
'place' in society. Small wonder, she says, that one of our most
enduring conventional wisdoms is that "a good marriage takes work".
If this protestation against the rigours of monogamy, fidelity and
marriage-slavery as the complement to wage-slavery sounds familiar,
it's because it's very similar to the argument that Glenn Parton made
in his essay posted first on these pages last year entitled "Love Politics".
Glenn's argument is that we have become so emotionally numbed by our
twin bondage to job and marriage that it has made our hearts cold and
hard, uncaring of the plight of our planet and of others, and that
this
is a direct cause of the destruction of our world. "If I'm miserable,
why should I care about anyone else?" Dare to love more than one
person, he suggests, and the shackles of this self-imposed
imprisonment
are broken, and the inrush of emotion will shock us into awareness of,
and eagerness to heal, the massive emotional and physical illness of
our entire planet.
Why should we, why do we
subject ourselves to this one-love-partner-slavery as easily and as
passively as we do to wage-slavery? This is the subject of much of Ms.
Kipnis' book. Her prose is so adept and so powerful I won't attempt to
paraphrase her arguments. Here are a few teasers:
Is it the persistence of the
work
ethic that ties us to the compassionate couple and its workaday
regimes, or is it the ethos of compassionate coupledom that ties us to
sould-deadening work regimes...Resenting the boss? Feeling bored or
overworked or dissatisfied? Getting complaints about your attitude?
Whether it's "on the relationship" or "on the job" get yourself right
to the therapist's office, pronto. There are only two possible
diagnoses for all such modern ailments: it's going to be either
"intimacy issues" or "authority issues". You'll soon discover that the
disease doubles as the prescription at this clinic: You're just going
to have to "work harder on yourself"...
Take the modern consumer. Clearly, routing desire into consumption
would be necessary to sustain a consumer society -- a citizenry who
fucked in lieu of shopping would soon bring the entire economy
grinding
to a standstill. Or better still, take the modern depressive. What a
boon to both the modern pharmaceutical and the social-harmony
industries that such a social type would be. These are merely
hypotheticals of course, since it's not as if we live in a society of
consumers and depressives, or as if the best strategy for the latter
weren't widely held to be strategically indulging in the former --
"retail therapy"...Love's proper denouement, matrimony, is also of
course the social form regulated by the state, which refashions itself
as a benevolent pharmacist, doling out the addictive substance in
licensed doses...What about re-envisioning [marriage] or... insisting
that social resources and privileges not be allocated on the basis of
marital status? No. let's demand regulation! Not that it's easy to
re-envision anything when these intersections of love and acquiescence
are the very backbone of the modern self, when every iota of
self-worth
and identity hinge on them...Domestic
coupledom is the boot camp for compliant citizenship, a training
ground for gluey resignation and immobility...
Ms. Kipnis suggests the same lack of innovation that permeates the
workplace in the 21st century also permeates domestic
institutions:
Different social norms could
entail something entirely different: yearly renewable contracts for
example. And if we weren't so emotionally yoked to the social forms
we've inherited that trying to envision different ways of having a
love
life seems intellectually impossible and even absurd, who knows what
other options might present themselves?...It behooves [our] society to
convince its citizenry that wanting change means personal failure,
starting over is shameful, and wanting more satisfaction than you have
is illegitimate...As love has increasingly become the center of all
emotional expression in the modern imagination -- the quantity without
which life seems forlorn -- anxiety about obtaining it in sufficient
quantities and for sufficient duration has increased to the point that
that anxiety suffuses the population, and most of our cultural
forms...Uncoupling [then] can only be experienced as ego-crushing
crisis and inadequacy...[and] the grief of failed love is exacerbated
by inevitable feelings of personal failure...
Much of the latter part of the book is focused on the psychological
gymnastics of all three (or more) parties in the polygon of adultery,
from the rationalization that hiding the affair is to protect the
feelings of the cuckold, to the feelings of self-hatred and
self-flagellation of the 'sinner(s)'. She also discusses the awkward
mechanics of the ultimate break-up of either the marriage or the
affair
(or both), and the degree to which children of the relationship become
hostages, or excuses for deception, or excuses for the boredom that
gave rise to the deception. Of course the book also talks about famous
infidelities in high political circles, and the twisted hypocrisy of
conservatives' opposition to same-sex marriage, as well as the
equal-opportunity-for-misery desire of lesbians and gays to gain
access
to the sad and repressive regulation of 'official' marriage rather
than
'settling for' merely the legal and resource rights that come with
equivalent-to-married status. And there's also a discussion of the
pragmatic phenomenon of "serial monogamy" -- the fall-back that
there's
nothing wrong with marriage per
se, it's just that we were all married to the wrong person.
All of this is complicated (even more) by the emergence of the Two-Income
Trap, which imposes a financial prison on top of the emotional one
in marriage. We have to stay
together because we can't afford to live apart.
I am convinced that this one factor is overwhelmingly responsible for
keeping the rate of divorce from reaching astronomical levels. It is
also probably helpful in keeping birth rates in the West below
replacement levels -- Not only can we not afford children, we
certainly
don't want any (or any more) with the spouse we're economically
shackled to. And having one with the secret love is just too messy. In
my recent article predicting a baby boom, perhaps I underestimated the
sheer perverseness of a socioeconomic system that not only makes
parenthood financially reckless, it also suppresses fertility rates by
its expressed moral repugnance for having a child by someone other
than
your boring spouse.
A lot of people, some of their own free will, and many more who have
been pushed, have recently broken free of wage slavery and are now
working, mostly for much less income, for themselves. That's probably
a
good thing in many ways -- it reduces the supply of the remaining wage
slaves, which might actually, in time, allow them to bargain from a
position of at least a bit of power. It increases self-sufficiency. It
reduces excessive consumption. What if there were a similar revolution
against marriage slavery?
What if a whole generation just refused to define themselves (in more
ways than one) as married, or to live with the constraints of
monogamy,
and instead opted for a polyamory life-style?
Paternity 'rights' and responsibilities would both probably suffer, as
the new family unit would be a woman (or possibly, and more logically,
a group of women, in self-selected community) and their children. They would have the
power, and could strike whatever contract they chose with males who
wanted
the responsibilities and privileges of fatherhood. The nuclear family
and the 'single-family dwelling' would disappear. Conjugal relations
would not attach to parental responsibility, and could be negotiated
between any two people as individuals on a one-shot basis, with no
responsibility other than the responsibility to prevent unwanted
pregnancy and disease. This would probably be bad for the oldest
profession, as the supply/demand ratio for quick couplings would soar.
Jealousy and the consequent domestic violence that is the scourge of
our nuclear spouse-as-property society would, slowly (old habits die
hard), disappear. I think the vast majority of men, driven by
million-year-old biological imperatives, once they reached a certain
age, would choose to attach themselves to one of the matriarchal
communities (if so invited), and would do their share to provide for
its well-being, in return for the company and sense of purpose that
would bring.
We are told it takes a village, a community, to raise a child. Perhaps
the community is necessary, and sufficient, for far more: To break us
all free from both the emotionally numbing subjugation of wage-slavery
and the misery and boredom of marriage-slavery. The community would
then become truly self-sufficient in every respect, and we would be
happier and freer than we can, or dare, imagine.
Cartoon: By Peter Steiner from The New Yorker, in the Cartoon Bank
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Retiring Mandela Says 'Don't Call Me,
I'll Call You'
Retiring Mandela Says 'Don't Call Me,
I'll Call You'
06/01/2004 10:44 AMReuters via Wired News Jun 1 2004 3:11PM GMT
I love Ferrari stuff. Got all stuff from
cap/jackets/T-shirts etc. Would love to
go for Ferrari Laptop. What's
I love Ferrari stuff. Got all stuff from
cap/jackets/T-shirts etc. Would love to
go for Ferrari Laptop. What's
07/14/2004 08:09 AMTechTree Jul 14 2004 12:21PM GMT
Americans and Their Dogs
Americans and Their Dogs
04/14/2005 04:02 AMAmericans are more attached to their dogs than ever. Dogs have their
own fashions, bedding, and health products. The same people who sell
you collectibles, jewelry, lingerie, and household items, also want to
sell dog products. [PRWEB Apr 14, 2005]
More Americans Are Getting Osteoporosis
(AP)
More Americans Are Getting Osteoporosis
(AP)
07/26/2004 03:41 PMAP - The number of Americans diagnosed with osteoporosis surged
sevenfold over the past decade, coinciding with the development and
marketing of new drugs to treat the bone-thinning condition, a study
found.
"Americans have not been energized"
"Americans have not been energized"
05/05/2004 08:15 AMHistorian James Chace talks about the presidential campaign of 1912
and how its spirit of progressive reform could energize the 2004
election.
When gay Americans marry
When gay Americans marry
08/17/2004 09:49 AMWhat the partnership of Gov. and Mrs. McGreevey says about the
absurdity of banning gay marriage.
First Foreigners, Then Americans
First Foreigners, Then Americans
04/20/2004 04:50 AMThe Patriot Act was supposed to help law enforcement ferret out
foreign terrorists among us. But law professor David Cole says laws
aimed at foreigners inevitably target Americans, and not very
effectively at that. Kim Zetter interviews the author of Enemy Aliens.
Few Americans Stock Up
Few Americans Stock Up
07/20/2004 09:16 AMRetirement isn't going to be pretty for many people.
Why Americans pay more for software
Why Americans pay more for software
05/02/2004 08:49 PMZDNet May 3 2004 0:32AM GMT
Bank on Americans
Bank on Americans
07/17/2004 08:23 AM This story is real. It is a story about a banking issue that really
turned into a eye-opening experience about big business in America.
So, you have seen the commercials for Altovis(tm)? It’s supposedly
to help with fatigue during your busy work week. Well, I'm a U.S.
Marine, and my job wears me out on a daily basis, so I figured it
wouldn't hurt to try it. They give you a free trial; you just pay S&H
and it all seems easy enough. Well, I fell for the trap. I paid the
$5, and was sent a small packet which I tried out. It didn't really do
anything for me, so I trashed them. And so the adventure begins.
New Americans with Disabilities
Requirements
New Americans with Disabilities
Requirements
08/27/2004 02:11 PMThe new Americans with Disabilities Act now requires a brand new
surface texture on all new public sidewalk ramps called “Detectable
Warnings,” or effectively, “Braille for your feet.” This gives blind
and visually impaired persons a “tactile cue” to warn them of
impending danger or a grade change. Required in all states, this new
mandate opens up worlds of mobility for those previously held hostage
in their homes for fear of safety issues most take for granted. [PRWEB
Aug 26, 2004]
Americans in cyberspace: new Pew study
Americans in cyberspace: new Pew study
01/03/2004 02:31 AM
A new
study by the Pew Internet
and American Life project analyzes American usage of
cyberspace . The results describe a nation with more people than
ever doing more and more varied activities online. While email remains
the most popular application,
"[i]nformation-seeking activities" are very important for many
users. Roughly two-thirds of Americans are online now, but that
number's growth has dwindled, suggesting the offline population is
stabilizing. Despite the economic downturn, internet financial usage
grows .
Interestingly, information overload seems to be less of a problem
for those
with the greatest amount , due to innovative practices and
technologies:
In a telephone interview, Horrigan shared what he found most
surprising about the data: The heaviest information technology
users—the Young Tech Elites—are the ones who feel least burdened
by information overload. “They’ve developed coping mechanisms to
deal with the wealth of information that’s out there,” he said.
These mechanisms, Horrigan discovered, range from using spam filters
and creating multiple folders to manage legitimate e-mail to simply
knowing when to keep your cell phone off.
Americans want Bluetooth, not video
Americans want Bluetooth, not video
06/04/2004 08:19 PMMobileTracker Jun 4 2004 11:56PM GMT
'14% Of Americans Would Choose Apple'
'14% Of Americans Would Choose Apple'
12/08/2003 11:37 AMApple is the favourite brand of 14 per cent of Americans looking to
buy a new PC. (Macworld UK via MyAppleMenu)
How Americans Use Instant Messaging
How Americans Use Instant Messaging
09/02/2004 06:26 AMHow Americans Use Instant Messaginghttp://www.
pewinternet.org/report_display.asp?r=1332004 Pew
Internet & American Life surveys reveal that more than four in ten
online Americans instant message (IM). That reflects about 53 million
American adults who use instant messaging programs. About 11 million
of them IM at work and they are becoming fond of its capacity to
encourage productivity and interoffice cooperation. At the same time,
IM usage varies widely across different age groups. Instant messengers
utilize IM not only as a way to expand and remain connected their
social circle, but also as a form of self-expression, through use of
customized away messages, profiles and buddy icons. Instant messagers
use the expressive tools of IM more frequently than the protective
tools that allow them to block unwanted communications. Buddy list
management also occurs relatively infrequently, with users reporting
adding or deleting buddies from their list no more than a few times a
month.
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Ecard-hijack spam
Ecard-hijack spam
02/16/2004 05:20 PMdumped Internet Exploder .. this is
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Send A Star Wars Valentine's Day eCard
Send A Star Wars Valentine's Day eCard
02/14/2004 09:29 AMLooking for suitable Star Wars images to send as Postcards for
Valentine's Day? Look no further. We've chosen 30 images from the Fan
Art Museum that fit the Valentine's Day theme perfectly. To send these
images to your friends, family, co-workers and loved ones, check out
our
Valentine's Day eCards!
How2Share Technologies Launches New
Global Imaging Website with Free eCard
Photo Card Service
How2Share Technologies Launches New
Global Imaging Website with Free eCard
Photo Card Service
09/22/2004 02:32 AMHow2Share Technologies Inc. announced today the launch of a new
website to power the PiXPO™ global picture sharing network,
www.PiXPO.com. The new site features the free PiXPOstcard service, to
enable visitors to send customized photo eCards for free, as well as
the ability to upload images directly to the PiXPO Global Picture
Sharing network. [PRWEB Sep 22, 2004]
Zerco Systems Calls President Bush’s
Ohio Visit Timely & Says Zerco Has
Proven Solution to Help Meet National
Goal To Provide Americans With
Electronic Health Records; Zerco’s
Health-eCard Offers Solution To National
Need
Zerco Systems Calls President Bush’s
Ohio Visit Timely & Says Zerco Has
Proven Solution to Help Meet National
Goal To Provide Americans With
Electronic Health Records; Zerco’s
Health-eCard Offers Solution To National
Need
05/31/2004 01:47 PMZerco Systems has proven technology can help meet the call of
President George Bush for Americans to have electronic health records
within the next 10 years. John Soltesz, Chairman and Chief Executive
Officer of the developer and integrator of optical memory card
technology and complete biometric verification-based identification
systems and data storage solutions, said, “Zerco’s optical card
technology has been applied to health care and meets the President’s
criteria to bring health care up to other industries in information
technology utilization. The vast storage capacity of the
ZercoHealth-eCard meets the needs of providing a personalized single
source medical record for all Americans.” [PRWEB May 25, 2004]
Most Americans Say 'I Love You' Every Day (AP)