I Gave Birth to Prince's Love Child
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The Posting That Gave Birth To a Web
Site
The Posting That Gave Birth To a Web
Site
06/10/2004 04:34 PMA long time ago, in the wee hours of the morning, I made a post to
Gadgetopia entitled Fake
Escrow Sites. It was a posting about how crooks use fake escrow
sites to cheat people out of money. It was just one or two sentences,
and it linked to a news article.
I was a little disturbed at what I read, calling it "ugly stuff."
It's gotten great search e
ngine placement, and, consequently, it gets an enormous amount of
traffic every day and a ton of comments. The average entry on
Gadgetopia has 0.83 comments — this one has 130+.
There's apparently a real need for people to know which escrow
sites are good and which aren't. I like this posting a lot because
— at the risk of sounding dramatic, it's really helping people.
Here are excerpts from some of the comments.
I have someone trying to get me to go through this site as well,
instead of via amazon. I'm very glad I haven't sent off anything yet
[...]
Thanks to this site I've been saved from sending off a £6000+
diamond ring [...]
Like Nick Allan, I too have just been saved from what appears to be
the same person in Moldova [...]
I too have been saved a ton of money by this site. I was almost
duped for a Rolex Yachtmaster watch [...]
So, as you can see, this is a very good thing. Since it's SO good,
we're happy to announce:
http://www.fakeescrowsites.com/<
/a>
Nothin' but a big discussion board that will hopefully continue the
great discussion and impact that the blog posting has had. It's an
expirement really — if you throw up a simple collaboration
platform to address a real need with a real audience, will it thrive?
We're about to find out.
There's still some work to do in configuring the forum, but since
this isn't a revenue-generating operation, I wanted to get it up and
out there before other pressures took me away from it. It's a case
of, "if you wait until you're ready, you'll never be ready."
In doing this, I had to work very hard to stifle over-analysis that
would scare me out of it — namely, the potential for lawsuits.
I wrote some very clear and frank policies for the site, and I'm
simply going to brave the legal waters and hope for the best. I have
faith that we'll do much more good than harm.
I have never used an escrow site. I've only used eBay once. But
in seeing some of the stories in that news article, and some of the
comments that were posted, I really think we have a chance to make an
impact here.
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Yahoo! News - Ark. Family Marks Birth of
15th Child
Yahoo! News - Ark. Family Marks Birth of
15th Child
05/26/2004 01:46 PMThese people are scary .. 15 KIDS?! ..
here
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Judge tosses coin for tug-of-love child
(Reuters)
Judge tosses coin for tug-of-love child
(Reuters)
12/30/2004 11:21 PMReuters - When the separated parents of a five-year old Italian boy
could not agree whose house he should stay at over Christmas,
a judge settled the dispute by tossing a coin, an Italian newspaper
has reported.
Love, Family, and Fairness, or How to
Raise a Gay Friendly Child
Love, Family, and Fairness, or How to
Raise a Gay Friendly Child
06/17/2005 05:03 PMImagine that one day you hear your child at play say to another "The
way you throw is so gay." It seems "gay" has become a catch-all
insult. How do you respond? You could just let it pass. After all,
home and family should provide a refuge from the clamor...
The secret love-child of Rush Limbaugh
and Perry Mason
The secret love-child of Rush Limbaugh
and Perry Mason
12/05/2003 11:21 PM The secret love-child of
Rush Limbaugh and Perry Mason gets his day in court. Vince Foster
conspiracy theorist nutjob challenges SCOTUS on whether the government
can deny a FOIA request on the grounds of invasion of personal
privacy. Amusing write-up by Dahlia Lithwick.
Italy Judge Tosses Coin for Xmas
Tug-Of-Love Child (Reuters)
Italy Judge Tosses Coin for Xmas
Tug-Of-Love Child (Reuters)
12/30/2004 02:48 PMReuters - When the separated parents of a five-year
old Italian boy could not agree whose house he should stay at
over Christmas, a judge settled the dispute by tossing a coin,
an Italian newspaper reported on Thursday.
NYTimes on Prince's year so far
NYTimes on Prince's year so far
07/12/2004 10:42 AMmaking him sound downright sane
a non-fan reviews prince's current tour
a non-fan reviews prince's current tour
04/20/2004 04:48 PMalways makes me happy to see someone understand why i'm a fan
MP defends prince's cull stance
MP defends prince's cull stance
02/16/2004 12:06 PMPrince Charles' role in trying to stop the foot-and-mouth cull is
defended by a former minister.
john's mom reviews prince's show
john's mom reviews prince's show
07/20/2004 01:15 PMso funky even mothers approve
Property boosts Prince's income
Property boosts Prince's income
06/30/2004 06:22 AMThe Prince of Wales's pre-tax income rose by nearly a fifth last year
to nearly £12m, a Royal report has shown.
terrific overview of prince's
reappearance
terrific overview of prince's
reappearance
09/17/2004 07:47 PMa little more insightful than the rest of the "year in
prince" articles
prince's CD distribution strategy is
working
prince's CD distribution strategy is
working
05/20/2004 04:05 AMand it's only an option for people who can actually put on a decent
show
the Free Times covers Prince's comeback
the Free Times covers Prince's comeback
04/14/2004 06:27 PMman, these kids are *excited*
terrific SFGate recap of prince's
comeback
terrific SFGate recap of prince's
comeback
05/29/2004 03:22 PMthe consensus seems to be it's savvy marketing, but good to have him
back
" A belief that we are connected as one
people. If there’s a child on the south
side of Chicago who can’t read, that
matters to me, even if it’s not my
child. If there’s a senior citizen
somewhere who can’t pay for her
prescription and has to choose..."
" A belief that we are connected as one
people. If there’s a child on the south
side of Chicago who can’t read, that
matters to me, even if it’s not my
child. If there’s a senior citizen
somewhere who can’t pay for her
prescription and has to choose..."
07/29/2004 01:02 AMAre You a Perpetual Bad Relationship
Magnet? Nobody's Unlucky in Love:
Learning Core Causes for Lousy Love
Relationships
Are You a Perpetual Bad Relationship
Magnet? Nobody's Unlucky in Love:
Learning Core Causes for Lousy Love
Relationships
06/18/2004 03:10 AMRelationship advisor and author Nancy Pina dispenses free relationship
advice to adults struggling with individual, couples and marriage
issues. She advises teens and young adults in recognizing healthy,
loving relationships. [PRWEB Jun 18, 2004]
Boys love games, girls love ringtones
Boys love games, girls love ringtones
06/02/2004 10:08 AMBut neither gives a hoot for 3G
Chris Abraham: Liberals Find Mad Love at
Act For Love
Chris Abraham: Liberals Find Mad Love at
Act For Love
06/22/2005 02:45 AMLiberals Find Mad Love at Act For Love ..
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I love women...no, wait, apparently I
love men
I love women...no, wait, apparently I
love men
01/04/2004 04:59 AMmirror.co.uk
mirror.co.uk/news/allnews/content_objectid=13773600_met
hod=full_siteid=50143_headline=-WO-IS-ME--name_page.html
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"Wait... they don't love you like I love
you" [sorry, got stuck in my head]
"Wait... they don't love you like I love
you" [sorry, got stuck in my head]
03/25/2005 04:09 PM
Social
Explorer. "Social Explorer is dedicated to providing
demographic information in an easily understood format, data maps. We
serve hundreds of interactive data maps of United States. Here, you
can visually analyze and understand the demography of the U.S.,
explore your neighborhood and learn about the people that live around
you."
Love Macs? Then Learn To Love Macsurfer
Love Macs? Then Learn To Love Macsurfer
05/19/2004 08:55 AMIt does a bang up job of providing the Apple community with
interesting reads day in day out. By Hadley Stern, O'Reilly Network
(via MyAppleMenu)
The Irish Have a New Jackass: If You
Like Dumb, Stupid and Funny Stuff, Then
You Will Love This New Site From a Group
of Crazy Mental Irish guys Who Just Love
to Party
The Irish Have a New Jackass: If You
Like Dumb, Stupid and Funny Stuff, Then
You Will Love This New Site From a Group
of Crazy Mental Irish guys Who Just Love
to Party
03/22/2005 04:47 PMThe Americans have Jackass while the Irish have the Crazy mental team.
These guys film all their stupid and funny stuff for our enjoyment,
from driving a Ferrari 355 at breakneck speeds around the Hollywood
hills in Los Angeles to drilling a hole in one of their arms with a
hammer drill, these guys are really crazy. [PRWEB Mar 21, 2005]
Against Love: Love Politics Revisited
Against Love: Love Politics Revisited
03/22/2005 04:54 PM
The
Idea: Author
Laura Kipnis argues that monogamy is unnatural and unhealthy, and
possibly complicit in our emotional detachment from political life and
our ecosystem as well.
Laura Kipnis, despite the title
of of her 200-page "polemic", is not Against Love. Rather,
she's against the trappings, the rules, the rituals that our culture
imposes on love relationships. She goes even further -- she sees
marriage, the institution, as every bit as repressive, suffocating and
unnatural as our mind-numbing employment in modern hierarchical
organizations, and draws strong parallels between the slavery of the
workplace and the slavery of the matrimonial home. These two canons of
civilization: our need and responsibility to devote our daytime hours
to meaningless subordinate labour, and our need and responsibility to
devote the rest of our hours to boring, stifling and unsatisfying
monogamy, work together diabolically to keep us suppressed, and in our
'place' in society. Small wonder, she says, that one of our most
enduring conventional wisdoms is that "a good marriage takes work".
If this protestation against the rigours of monogamy, fidelity and
marriage-slavery as the complement to wage-slavery sounds familiar,
it's because it's very similar to the argument that Glenn Parton made
in his essay posted first on these pages last year entitled "Love Politics".
Glenn's argument is that we have become so emotionally numbed by our
twin bondage to job and marriage that it has made our hearts cold and
hard, uncaring of the plight of our planet and of others, and that
this
is a direct cause of the destruction of our world. "If I'm miserable,
why should I care about anyone else?" Dare to love more than one
person, he suggests, and the shackles of this self-imposed
imprisonment
are broken, and the inrush of emotion will shock us into awareness of,
and eagerness to heal, the massive emotional and physical illness of
our entire planet.
Why should we, why do we
subject ourselves to this one-love-partner-slavery as easily and as
passively as we do to wage-slavery? This is the subject of much of Ms.
Kipnis' book. Her prose is so adept and so powerful I won't attempt to
paraphrase her arguments. Here are a few teasers:
Is it the persistence of the
work
ethic that ties us to the compassionate couple and its workaday
regimes, or is it the ethos of compassionate coupledom that ties us to
sould-deadening work regimes...Resenting the boss? Feeling bored or
overworked or dissatisfied? Getting complaints about your attitude?
Whether it's "on the relationship" or "on the job" get yourself right
to the therapist's office, pronto. There are only two possible
diagnoses for all such modern ailments: it's going to be either
"intimacy issues" or "authority issues". You'll soon discover that the
disease doubles as the prescription at this clinic: You're just going
to have to "work harder on yourself"...
Take the modern consumer. Clearly, routing desire into consumption
would be necessary to sustain a consumer society -- a citizenry who
fucked in lieu of shopping would soon bring the entire economy
grinding
to a standstill. Or better still, take the modern depressive. What a
boon to both the modern pharmaceutical and the social-harmony
industries that such a social type would be. These are merely
hypotheticals of course, since it's not as if we live in a society of
consumers and depressives, or as if the best strategy for the latter
weren't widely held to be strategically indulging in the former --
"retail therapy"...Love's proper denouement, matrimony, is also of
course the social form regulated by the state, which refashions itself
as a benevolent pharmacist, doling out the addictive substance in
licensed doses...What about re-envisioning [marriage] or... insisting
that social resources and privileges not be allocated on the basis of
marital status? No. let's demand regulation! Not that it's easy to
re-envision anything when these intersections of love and acquiescence
are the very backbone of the modern self, when every iota of
self-worth
and identity hinge on them...Domestic
coupledom is the boot camp for compliant citizenship, a training
ground for gluey resignation and immobility...
Ms. Kipnis suggests the same lack of innovation that permeates the
workplace in the 21st century also permeates domestic
institutions:
Different social norms could
entail something entirely different: yearly renewable contracts for
example. And if we weren't so emotionally yoked to the social forms
we've inherited that trying to envision different ways of having a
love
life seems intellectually impossible and even absurd, who knows what
other options might present themselves?...It behooves [our] society to
convince its citizenry that wanting change means personal failure,
starting over is shameful, and wanting more satisfaction than you have
is illegitimate...As love has increasingly become the center of all
emotional expression in the modern imagination -- the quantity without
which life seems forlorn -- anxiety about obtaining it in sufficient
quantities and for sufficient duration has increased to the point that
that anxiety suffuses the population, and most of our cultural
forms...Uncoupling [then] can only be experienced as ego-crushing
crisis and inadequacy...[and] the grief of failed love is exacerbated
by inevitable feelings of personal failure...
Much of the latter part of the book is focused on the psychological
gymnastics of all three (or more) parties in the polygon of adultery,
from the rationalization that hiding the affair is to protect the
feelings of the cuckold, to the feelings of self-hatred and
self-flagellation of the 'sinner(s)'. She also discusses the awkward
mechanics of the ultimate break-up of either the marriage or the
affair
(or both), and the degree to which children of the relationship become
hostages, or excuses for deception, or excuses for the boredom that
gave rise to the deception. Of course the book also talks about famous
infidelities in high political circles, and the twisted hypocrisy of
conservatives' opposition to same-sex marriage, as well as the
equal-opportunity-for-misery desire of lesbians and gays to gain
access
to the sad and repressive regulation of 'official' marriage rather
than
'settling for' merely the legal and resource rights that come with
equivalent-to-married status. And there's also a discussion of the
pragmatic phenomenon of "serial monogamy" -- the fall-back that
there's
nothing wrong with marriage per
se, it's just that we were all married to the wrong person.
All of this is complicated (even more) by the emergence of the Two-Income
Trap, which imposes a financial prison on top of the emotional one
in marriage. We have to stay
together because we can't afford to live apart.
I am convinced that this one factor is overwhelmingly responsible for
keeping the rate of divorce from reaching astronomical levels. It is
also probably helpful in keeping birth rates in the West below
replacement levels -- Not only can we not afford children, we
certainly
don't want any (or any more) with the spouse we're economically
shackled to. And having one with the secret love is just too messy. In
my recent article predicting a baby boom, perhaps I underestimated the
sheer perverseness of a socioeconomic system that not only makes
parenthood financially reckless, it also suppresses fertility rates by
its expressed moral repugnance for having a child by someone other
than
your boring spouse.
A lot of people, some of their own free will, and many more who have
been pushed, have recently broken free of wage slavery and are now
working, mostly for much less income, for themselves. That's probably
a
good thing in many ways -- it reduces the supply of the remaining wage
slaves, which might actually, in time, allow them to bargain from a
position of at least a bit of power. It increases self-sufficiency. It
reduces excessive consumption. What if there were a similar revolution
against marriage slavery?
What if a whole generation just refused to define themselves (in more
ways than one) as married, or to live with the constraints of
monogamy,
and instead opted for a polyamory life-style?
Paternity 'rights' and responsibilities would both probably suffer, as
the new family unit would be a woman (or possibly, and more logically,
a group of women, in self-selected community) and their children. They would have the
power, and could strike whatever contract they chose with males who
wanted
the responsibilities and privileges of fatherhood. The nuclear family
and the 'single-family dwelling' would disappear. Conjugal relations
would not attach to parental responsibility, and could be negotiated
between any two people as individuals on a one-shot basis, with no
responsibility other than the responsibility to prevent unwanted
pregnancy and disease. This would probably be bad for the oldest
profession, as the supply/demand ratio for quick couplings would soar.
Jealousy and the consequent domestic violence that is the scourge of
our nuclear spouse-as-property society would, slowly (old habits die
hard), disappear. I think the vast majority of men, driven by
million-year-old biological imperatives, once they reached a certain
age, would choose to attach themselves to one of the matriarchal
communities (if so invited), and would do their share to provide for
its well-being, in return for the company and sense of purpose that
would bring.
We are told it takes a village, a community, to raise a child. Perhaps
the community is necessary, and sufficient, for far more: To break us
all free from both the emotionally numbing subjugation of wage-slavery
and the misery and boredom of marriage-slavery. The community would
then become truly self-sufficient in every respect, and we would be
happier and freer than we can, or dare, imagine.
Cartoon: By Peter Steiner from The New Yorker, in the Cartoon Bank
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Wolk analyzes prince's
"comeback"
Wolk analyzes prince's
"comeback"
05/06/2004 09:56 PMas usual, slate has a much savvier and subtler take on pop culture
events
I gave my cat an enema!
I gave my cat an enema!
07/10/2004 06:48 AMan enema was adminstered to a cat .. story to sink your teeth into ..
not for the faint-hearted .. He gave his cat an emema! .. this poor
kitty .. this .. dit
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and he gave me the world
and he gave me the world
08/11/2004 08:36 AMVia the equally excited Neil McIntosh comes OSXPlanet. The Mercator
projection of Earth, with clouds set on is just lovely. The sun is
coming up over Chicago as I type. Also via Neil, and most likely only
going to work...
I Gave My Cat an Enema
I Gave My Cat an Enema
07/09/2004 10:09 AM
I Gave My Cat an
Enema .
Mine gave me the Jruns
Mine gave me the Jruns
09/21/2004 10:25 PM
Let your children play with
the common cold... introducing giant microbe plush toys.
[link via die puny
humans] Man 'recklessly' gave women HIV
Man 'recklessly' gave women HIV
06/21/2004 11:31 PMA man had unprotected sex with a woman despite knowing he had already
infected another with HIV, a court hears.
"I gave a lot of time to women ..."
"I gave a lot of time to women ..."
04/06/2005 11:31 AMOur greatest post-War writer, Saul Bellow sent his overeducated bulls
stumbling through the china shops of love.
AP: Chevron Gave Big to Schwarzenegger
(AP)
AP: Chevron Gave Big to Schwarzenegger
(AP)
09/02/2004 06:01 PMAP - Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger's ambitious plan to reorganize almost
every aspect of state government was influenced significantly by oil
and gas giant ChevronTexaco Corp., which managed to shape such key
recommendations as the removal of restrictions on oil refineries.
And in my thirst they gave my vinegar to
drink
And in my thirst they gave my vinegar to
drink
05/23/2004 05:00 AMheartfelt, thoughtful post .. same Catholic symbolism .. Jeanne of
Body and
Soul
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Airline says it gave U.S. passenger data
Airline says it gave U.S. passenger data
04/11/2004 01:09 PMEx-AIG Chief Gave Wife 41.4 Million
Shares (AP)
Ex-AIG Chief Gave Wife 41.4 Million
Shares (AP)
04/12/2005 11:06 PMAP - Three days before he resigned as head of American International
Group Inc., Maurice "Hank" Greenberg gave his wife 41.4 million of his
shares in the insurance company, according to a regulatory filing
Tuesday.
"gave an impressive and eloquent keynote
address"
"gave an impressive and eloquent keynote
address"
06/21/2004 09:19 AMRussia Gave U.S. Intel on Iraq, Putin
Says
Russia Gave U.S. Intel on Iraq, Putin
Says
06/19/2004 10:38 AMXposed Jun 19 2004 2:06PM GMT
Dino impact gave Earth the chill
Dino impact gave Earth the chill
05/31/2004 04:11 AMScientists find firm evidence for a global winter following the
asteroid impact that is thought to have killed off the dinosaurs 65
million years ago.
Putin Says Russia Gave U.S. Intel on
Iraq (AP)
Putin Says Russia Gave U.S. Intel on
Iraq (AP)
06/18/2004 07:22 PMAP - Russian President Vladimir Putin said Friday his government
warned Washington that Saddam Hussein's regime was preparing attacks
in the United States and its interests abroad an assertion that
appears to bolster President Bush's contention that Iraq was a threat.
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